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Your go-to Guide on Prostate Massagers

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The demand for prostate massagers in India is at an all-time high. Well, are you curious about this anal sex toy for men, and how to engage in some fun, pleasure-filled prostate play? We got you. Welcome to the ultimate, and your go-to guide to prostate massagers!

Imagining having multiple, full-bodied orgasms would be incredible, wouldn’t it? Ahh well, no more imagine this, imagine that. On stimulating their little pleasure nubbins, people with prostates can experience wave after wave of ultimate sexual bliss.

Lelo, a Swedish manufacturer of sex toys, conducted a survey in which 80 percent of women said they would perform a prostate massage on their partner if asked. According to the same survey, 71% of straight men have tried or would try prostate massagers. It’s hard to understand how prostate play has not yet featured in more discussions about heterosexual sex. Taboo subjects rarely make it to the mainstream, of course.

Is prostate massage healthy? Which is the best prostate massager for me? What are the benefits of prostate massages? Whether you are a prostate play pro, or a beginner, these questions are completely valid.

Stimulating the prostate creates an intense plateau of pleasure, over a longer duration of time. And if you say that the only person who’s ever come close to your prostate is your doctor, let us show you the world of bliss that is awaiting you!

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What is the prostate?

Okay, time for a quick anatomy lesson: the prostate is a small, walnut-shaped gland located about 2-5 inches inside your rectum, towards your stomach that is also known as the male G-spot or P-spot. Seminal fluid, which is the fluid that mixes with sperm and forms semen, is produced here. Additionally, it serves as a gland within the male reproductive system. The prostate gland is part of the male reproductive system only in cisgender men and those assigned male at birth.

An anatomical sketch showing the exact location of the prostate gland

You can reach your P-spot directly through the anus or indirectly through the perineum, the area located between your scrotum and anus.

The prostate generally gets bigger and easier to find as men age. Showering your prostate with some TLC is essential not only for your health but for overall sexual happiness. In fact, the demand for prostate massagers in India is ever-increasing! Don’t believe us? Check out our blog here.  ‘Why is the demand for prostate massagers in India on the rise? blog’

Prostate massaging? What’s all that about?

Your P-spot is quite similar to the G-spot and feels like a rough ball to touch, and this nubbin is eager to provide you all the pleasure too. It’s been a thing to massage one’s prostate since the 19th century by doctors to treat prostatitis i.e., inflammation of the prostate gland. The act is popularly (fondly) called prostate milking when one massages the prostate to release the thin, milky prostate fluid.

Do you or your partner own a prostate? We are here to get to the bottom (pun intended, of course) of prostate milking.

An anatomical sketch showing how to reach the prostate gland using a finger

‘But hold on a minute,’ you say, ‘I have the best orgasm from my penis alone – why should I even consider touching my prostate?’ Well, well, we would like to break it to you that the climax you experience from milking your prostate is entirely different from a penile orgasm. Sexologists in fact say that a prostate-induced orgasm feels differently as it is initiated from inside the body, giving rise to more contractions internally before a climax, and almost feels like being jacked-off from inside.

Are you someone who always harpers on the fact that vulva-owners can have multiple orgasms? You would be happy to know that prostate milking could possibly induce multiple orgasms.

Using massagers can make it convenient to explore the world of prostate play on your own. Even with a partner, their hands and wrists can soon feel exhausted, even though they would like to go on for longer. Using a toy will have you feeling amazing for long durations, and it might even provide you or your partner space to combine it with oral sex, mutual masturbation, or even intercourse.

‘Nuff said. How do I massage my prostate?

Glad you asked. Now that you know the why and the what of prostate massage, here’s the fun part – the how.

Follow our simple guide for a one-way ticket to pleasure-land!

Step 1: Prep time!

Enemas are popular among anal play enthusiasts, but you don’t have to perform a dramatic washout before play. An enema bulb or well-directed shower head will cleanse the few inches you need before your first prostate massage since the faecal matter isn’t usually found in the rectum.

Also remember to take a leak before you start, as prostate play sometimes makes you feel as if you need to urinate. This is why you should also line your play space with some towels beforehand. Oh, and keep your nails trimmed.

Step 2: Relaaaaax.

Did you know that relaxation is key to getting more aroused?

It’s okay to feel apprehensive or nervous. What is important to know is that your anal sphincter can tighten when uncomfortable and can make any penetration painful. So turn on some soothing music, have a nice, warm shower, breathe a bit more deeply – whatever that gets you in the mood.

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Step 3: Position decisions

Different people have different positions that work for them –  see what works the best for you. You should ensure that it is comfortable enough for you to be in for a long time, and should give you quicker access to anal stimulation.

Step 4: Get inside

Slowly insert a finger (you can insert more as you get comfier) into your butthole; feel along the inside wall of the rectum (the side closest to the belly button). Inch your way to about four inches inside, and you should feel a small, round bump. Once you’ve found it, you may feel as though you’re going to pee, but this is normal. Curl your fingers in a ‘come hither’ motion for higher intensity. When you’re comfortable with one finger, you could add a second for even more stimulation.

Step 5: The best part: prostate massagers

Once your butt has made peace with your finger/s, you can get started with a prostate massager for men. And trust us, it makes things a hundred times easier as you’ll have to just sit back while a massager does all the work for you.

Prostate massagers are a type of male masturbation toy (also an anal sex toy, if you haven’t figured it out by now) designed to stimulate the prostate gland with its smooth, rounded tip. Typically made out of body-safe silicone or stainless steel, they have a curvature that makes it easy for insertion into the anus.

Safety tip: Always choose a prostate massager with a widened/flared base or handle, so that it doesn’t accidentally slip into the depths of your anus.

The different kinds of prostate massagers

Here is a run-down list of all the different kinds of prostate massagers available in the market. Each type has its own intended purpose. Decide your next purchase after checking out this list:

  1. Long Prostate Massagers
    You’ll want a lengthy toy if you enjoy deeply penetrating anal sex or want the maximum leverage for your prostate massage. There are lengthy prostate massagers available with girths varying from 1 inch to 3 or 4 inches broad.
  2. Wide Prostate Massagers
    These massagers are less than 5 or 6 inches long and as short as 3 inches, very much like butt plugs than dildos.
  3. Vibrating Prostate Massagers
    Some of them include a switch on the toy’s body that you can use to adjust the vibrations directly. Some massagers come with a remote control so you may enjoy the pulsating pleasure even if you’re not sitting on the machine.
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  4. Textured Prostate Massagers
    The type of texture you choose (ridges, nubs, or whatever, the sky is the limit) is a matter of personal preference. While some love the additional feeling that may help them experience new levels of pleasure, other men find that the increased texture makes it easier to discover and massage their prostate.
  5. Plastic Prostate Massagers
    These are reasonably priced, long-lasting, and offer a straightforward introduction to the huge world of prostate massage.
  6. Silicone Prostate Massagers
    This robust material is plush, which makes it more pleasant on the skin. Since there is less chance of friction or anal cavity injury, this is extremely important when penetrating yourself. These selections have textures and details that are more intriguing. Due to its non-porous characteristics, which prevent bacteria from permeating, silicone is often one of the safest materials.
  7. Rotating Prostate Massagers
    The construction of this toy is such that the massager’s shaft is fixed on a swivel and rotates from the toy’s grasp. If you’re using the toy for orgasm rather than foreplay, these are the best in the game. They exert the most pressure, just like an actual penis would.

Some do’s and don’ts for using prostate massagers

  1. Hygiene First. The spread of bacteria and sexually transmitted illnesses (STIs) is slowed down by proper anal sex safety. Use the restroom and give yourself a thorough cleaning in a warm bath or shower before attempting a prostate massage.
  2. Lube Up! A large amount is required for any type of anal penetration. Choose the lubricant type that is most effective for you and have it nearby while massaging your prostate. Use lubrication frequently. Inadequate lubrication puts you in danger of rupturing the delicate tissue in your rectum.
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  3. Find the best prostate massager for you. Other anal sex toys, such as anal beads and butt plugs, can also stimulate the prostate, but prostate massagers are made specifically to increase the pleasure zone around the prostate. Find a prostate massager that is the appropriate size and substance for you by doing some research.
  4. Consult a doctor. Always speak to a doctor before deciding on prostate massage therapy as a treatment for a prostate condition. In order to detect prostate cancer or chronic prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate gland, a doctor may conduct a prostate exam.
  5. Keep your toys clean, period. It’s crucial to keep your sex toys clean, especially if you use them with a partner. Toys made of hard plastic and silicone might be cleanable with antibacterial soap and water. Because they contain electrical components, prostate vibrators shouldn’t be submerged in water. Instead, wash them with a delicate, moist towel that has been soapy. Read and abide by any cleaning instructions that may have been included with your toy.

All said and done…

…we want to know, are you prepared for a new kind of orgasmic experience? Don’t hesitate; you have nothing to lose and a great deal to gain! It’s worth noting that prostate massage is safe and has nothing to do with a person’s sexual orientation. People from all walks of life have discovered that it has enriched their sexual relationships, whether they are having sex alone or with a partner, thanks to the many linked medical advantages.

Also, keep in mind that all you beginners should only move slowly, at your own pace. This guide has a load (pun always intended) of information on a variety of methods, practical tips, prostate preparation, and all of its rewards so you can decide how to proceed with your quest into the butt with confidence.

Just remember: each butt is unique and all butts need love. <3

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